Flirt!

[SunnyHeadcase]

OK, I don't know about you, but I like to make people really feel good about themselves if I can. So I usually give people a lot of compliments if I can (and I do this to everyone: Girls, guys, homeless people, rich people, etc.) So I was with my friend at a pool hall, and we started doing team play with two other people (who happen to be girls.) I was complimenting left and right, "Oh, nice shot," "damn you're kicking my ass," "nice break," "you're really good at this ya know." So after 4 games (us only winning 1 of them) me and my friend get in my truck and the first words out of her mouth were, "you flirt!" I was completely puzzled, I had no intention of flirting one bit. When did compliments become flirting, can't I do one nice thing and not have it backfire on me?

[Diva]

So you were with a female, huh? Sounds like a chick thing.

[Jake]

If there is one thing that I have learned in my life, it's that men and women will see things differently. i could say hello to a woman and my ex would claim I was flirting.

[ozblonde]

compliments are fine and we all love them but once they go too far then to be honest sunny they become anoying. Too many and most times its viewed as sucking up by every one around.

:)

[Diva]

I'll have to agree that we see things differently. What one person may take as being nice, another thinks they're sucking up. Then again... where I come from, calling someone a "bitch" is insulting them. Aparently it's a term of endearment over there. :eek:

[Redallnite]

SUCK UP!!!! BROWN NOSER!!!!!! CHEESY!!!!! Sunny you are young, be your sweet self but don't over do it though. :kissy: :kissy: :kissy: :winkkiss: :winkkiss: :winkkiss:

You want to see a flirt, watch a redhead!!!

what i'm gonna say has little to do with what things are, as opposed to what things seem to be. here goes:

if you are an attractive person, your comments in the affirmative will only make you look like you're flirting. let's face it, in the grand scheme of things, you probably are in one way or another. whether maliciously or playfully or COMPLETELY innocently, there's no way around the fact that people's perceptions, however fucked up, will remain the same.

if you're an ugly person, you will look desparate. compliments from their mouths (when not stuffed with cheesecake) will make it appear as they're trying very hard to make friends with people that are more attractive than they are.

if you're a marginally attractive/marginally ugly person then you could be looked at either way depending on the inflection of your voice, your tone, what you say, and how often you say it. everything that EVER comes out of your mouth is under scrutiny and you have two choices:
1. choose not to give a fuck (my personal favorite)
2. learn to think in terms of my own original personal principle, "factors of fuckability"

what is this you ask? simple. in math there's a principle of "lowest common denominator." this is the principle that makes fractions that appear to share no commonality be compared at a level plane and then dealt with appropriately.

this principle i've introduced encourages you to decide whether or not you could fuck the people you're currently surrounded by. that doesn't mean you HAVE to fuck 'em. CERTainly not! *chuckle* it just means that you THINK you could, given the proper circumstances like time, place, desire, and the possession of appropriate naughty bits. this way, you can tailor your responses and reactions so as to best attain the reactions that you desire.


p.s. red, excellent choice of pic. that girlie's name is Mai. she's a video game bitch from the King of Fighters series. her tig 'ole bittys bounce like that in-game makin' it a feature attraction at many arcades and in many adolescent dreamscapes.