View Full Version : What's better: Bad sex or no sex?
I think the question is pretty self explanatory... :winkkiss:
No sex, of course. I've always been of the opinion that something is better than nothing, but when it comes to sex my ideas are skewed...there's nothing more disappointing than being with someone who is absolutely terrible and uncreative in bed.
kittyroze
03-03-03, 01:09AM
Agreed...something IS better than nothing. I couldn't handle the none option.
Redallnite
03-03-03, 01:50PM
Why feel like shit ....
Since it's been six years since I've had any sex, I'll take bad sex right now.
I wanna cry. :( :( :( :( :(
Hmmm...I think that sex, be it bad sex or good sex, is still sex. Sex can be boring, and maybe even routine, but it's still sex. It's still one of the greatest acts a human can be a part of.
Now I don't mean to rub anything in anyone's face, but going with out it (like im sure most of us have) is a pretty miserable thing. So good sex, bad sex....It's still sex, and not with your hand...although if your kinky enough.....anywayz
Sterling
03-03-03, 09:13PM
How bad are we talking? I mean, I've had bad sex which was better than no sex, and I've also had bad sex which was definitely worse than no sex. Maybe my standards are just getting higher in my old age?
kittyroze
03-05-03, 02:06AM
I'm still happier with sex than without. Although bad sex for me hasn't really happened. But still...it's an attempt at affection and I always love that.
"Bad sex for men is still sex. Bad sex for women is a gynecological exam"
:shutup:
Mortysmil
03-07-03, 09:15PM
Bad sex is depressing. If you have no sex, you can always take care of it yourself.
Originally posted by Mortysmil
Bad sex is depressing. If you have no sex, you can always take care of it yourself.
Very true. There's nothing worse than having sex with a woman and realising your hand is more aroused.
I've had a woman who just layed there. I stopped and asked if something was wrong, and she said no. It just felt wrong and so we ended up talking about her life, etc... and left on good terms. The next day I was sure I'd hear about how bad it was from my sister, her friend. Come to find out she said I was her best. I felt sorry for her. But not sorry enough to go back.
Sex with a partner demands equal input and equal output. If the sex is bad in the eyes of one of the partners, then that partner isn't making the effort necessary to elicit a proper response. GIGO.
Solitary sex- well - is on the other hand.
Hahahahaha. Nice to meet you Michael. Welcome to NCT.
As the new guy around here, my first observation is that this place is populated by iconoclasts, wierdos, and wiseguys. Possibly some perverts. All of my kind of folks... I'm think I'm going to like it here.
But now, it's WAY past my bedtime. Glad I found youall.
no sex is better than bad sex. normally bad sex only occurs if you're not really attracted or comfortable to the other person, and like love_tattoos said, why feel like shit?
ooop, sorry, redallnite said why feel like shit, lo siento
Jennafer
03-18-03, 07:06PM
No comment. It's rabbitville around here. lol. We're thinking about him dressing up like an alien and filming. (don't ask) "help me.....I've been abducted!?" It's fun, though. (at least we're getting along) damn. Tin foil on his head....."close encounters"
okay, I really didn't need those thoughts in my head...............
Since I work for a living, the hand is too rough so I have to say Bad sex would be over No sex in my book.
LOL
MeLsWeEtiE
07-09-03, 05:00PM
Originally posted by chica
...normally bad sex only occurs if you're not really attracted or comfortable to the other person...
I'm not sure if I agree with this...I was really attracted to my first time guy, and even after my first time, he just wasn't good in bed...at all. I never wanted to fake during sex, but with him, I did just so he'd get off of me. It was that bad with him. But other than him, I've had great sex with a few other guys. But yeah, no sex is better than bad sex, by far. You can always handle your OWN business if you need to ;)
PhoenixFire
07-16-03, 10:59AM
...women fake for a reason.
personal:
bad or good, sex is a learning experience. Take control if you're bored, apply what you've learned.
A wise man never speaks unless he is spoken to, his mouth is always occupied. ;)
twistedzipper
09-21-03, 11:29AM
no sex is better than bad sex....for me anyway....
whitecrow
09-21-03, 06:08PM
Sex is like pizza.
When it's good, it's REALLY good and when it's bad - it's still pretty good.
Bad sex to a man is still sex. Bad sex to a woman is like a gynecological exam. :rude:
whitecrow
09-21-03, 09:49PM
Originally posted by Diva
Bad sex to a man is still sex. Bad sex to a woman is like a gynecological exam. :rude:
:rude: Hey...I've had a prostate exam. And...well....a probe.
ARRRGH!!! :rude:
Sweet Insanity
11-09-03, 12:48PM
Before being able to answer I would have know what the objective definition of sex would be for this thread. I'm assuming we are to only answer regarding sex with another person, therefore "no sex" would not give one the option of self-pleasure ;)
That aside, for me it would be bad sex. Because I hope there would be a chance for turning that bad sex into good sex with that particular person. Sometimes experimenting with what turns each other on is more fun than going at it with someone who is good in bed - because you have less of a road to travel with that person in the way of improvement.
Of course, if the option was no sex on a given night versus bad sex on that same given night (with no chance for future encounters) then I would choose no sex.
Geesh! Can you tell I'm a Libra? I had to look at it from all angles and balance everything out eh?
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