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Boozer
01-17-03, 02:03AM
January 16. 1975.......a bouncing baby boy is born to Albert and Carol T.

Yup, that's me, 28 years ago today. It seems like just yesteday I was graduating, and now my 10 year reunion is coming up this year. Where the hell does the time go??? I can't believe I'm 28 all ready. I know, I know, "Oh, you're just a young pup yet." If that's so true, how come I don't feel like a young pup any more. I feel like I've lived the life of someone 10 times my age. I'm not sure how this will sound to you all, but I'm one of the oldest 28 year olds you'll ever meet. I've gone through some sh!t in my life I wouldn't wish on anyone. I sit back and look at all of the what if's and might have been's, and I start to think that maybe there's a reason for the way my life's turned out. Maybe there's something I'm meant to do. God knows that I probably shouldn't be here right now. (Don't ask for details. No offense, but I don't know any of you well enough to go there.) But I feel like I've been cheated in a way. I look around a see things that I feel like I've earned, but haven't been awarded yet. And I get angry because I want these things. It seems like no matter how much I strive to better myself or be a better person, these things I want keep falling just out of reach. And just when I think about giving up and saying to hell with it, something happens that gives me the kick in the @ss to keep on trying.

I guess that what I'm trying to say in my drunken stupor is that no one should ever give up hope. That the one thing that you want will somehow find a way into your life, one way or another. You just can't press yourself and try so damned hard. It will happen when it's supposed to happen. Sit back, relax, have a cold one, and let things happen as they will. As much as we'd all like to think we have control over our lives, we don't. Let the chips falls where they may. I'll be there to catch them.

Al

Zaphros
01-17-03, 02:50AM
Happy belated birthday.

It's my big 30th on the 19th.

I'm just happy to make it this far :)

JakeD
01-17-03, 04:44AM
Not a bad little bit of writing there, Boozer. POST MORE OFTEN, DAMMIT!!! :P

Yeah, it's good to sit back and reminisce on your birthday. Just to think about where you've been and where you're going...

You've still got a good bit of time ahead of you, and it's good that you're thankful for everything that has happened in your life, whether good, bad, or indifferent. You're still alive. That's definitely one thing to be proud of. Life's a hard fucking road to wander (so I've heard) and hopefully things will start looking up for you eventually. There's nothing wrong with wanting things for yourself, but it just takes forever to get them. But sitting back and relaxing isn't always the best alternative. Sometimes you have to take a leap of faith and strive for something if you want it bad enough. Sure, some sacrifices may have to be made (anything from pride to personal integrity to money to vices), but the benefits should be more important than anything that was sacrificed....

I know I'm not really qualified to make sagelike, philosophical remarks as I've still got quite a few years ahead of me, but it never hurts to talk to someone about what's going on in your life.

And if you ever need us, we're here. Take care in the meantime.

JakeD
01-17-03, 04:45AM
And it's good to see you on the board, Zaphros. How you been?

If our digital paths don't happen to cross between now and the 19th, happy pre-birthday.

Zaphros
01-17-03, 01:45PM
Cheers jakeD.
I've been fine. I had a few personnal problems last year but life is good now. Back to my old ways. Looking through the board there are a few names I recognise and some I don't.

Take care.

GLADIATOR
01-17-03, 02:39PM
Boozer
Great post, one that I suspect is from the heart. I sincerely hope you realize your ambitions and dreams.
Take care and happy Birthday
-GLADIATOR.

Diva
01-17-03, 03:31PM
Hey Boozer! Great post, man. :) It's good to see you've got something to kick you in the ass and keep on believing.

By the way... Did you happen to see this (http://www.nochicktrix.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=3065) thread? :cheesy:

Jake
01-18-03, 08:13PM
Great post, Boozer. You should definately write more.

Boozer
01-18-03, 11:09PM
Originally posted by Diva
By the way... Did you happen to see this (http://www.nochicktrix.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=3065) thread? :cheesy:

No, this is the first time I've been online since this post, and I only got online that night just to make this post, then got offline. Thanks everyone.

Al