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Diva
04-04-02, 05:49PM
Sorry Gang... The Diva's Been Sick...
...and tired of this whole damn week. I even deleted that horrible email update... not that is was a fond memory to look back on. Plus I'm still ironing out the kinks in my friends' board. Much like anything popular from the get go... we've had a few bumps to work out. I was originally just hosting the board, but ended up taking over administrative responsibility when there were problems brewing... So, basically, I walked in blind. The easy fix was clarifying roles and responsibilities. The toughest job is keeping the web site hyping and cross site slamming at bay. True fans are great. They'd slam Mother Theresa. But then you get these guys who go to the site to put it down, and hype their site. I cannot tell you how infuriating that is. I don't even list my site and I'm forking out the dough to host it! So now I have to act like some sort of fem-dom and order these adults around like we're in high school and I'm the teacher. What a fucking joke! I started this site to meet people, have fun, learn about the world around us. You take for granted what someone is going through if you don't think globally. That's a hard thing to do. But these webmasters who skulk around other sites trying to Spam and start these fucking wars should be shut down for six to eight months and be made to start all over again. Then there's asshole webmasters who come over talking shit, like they want to whip out their dick and have a pissing contest. I may not have a dick, but I could still bitch slap your sorry ass back into your mama. What purpose does it serve to go to another webmaster's site and insult them. That's like going to a neighbor's party and saying the food is shitty, but I've got fresh food at my place. Especially if D-Man did them a favor before. The bottom line is... If you go to another web site to put them down and/or sell your site as superior, you're the biggest loser that walks this planet. What do I get out of hosting the forum financially? Nothing. No income, No promoting. nothing. Then why am I doing it? Because I want to have a place where people can go to kick back and just be themselves. The one forum that I loved to go to and loved talking to the people isn't like that. One moderator made me feel soo bad that I can't even go back.

I was told my site wasn't acceptable in their forum. I couldn't even talk to the guy. he happened to be the only one there that didn't make me feel welcome. Everyone else gave the impression of 'coming home'. Do you know how fucking hard it is to sound 'curt' over the internet? That's how this guy was. No pleasantries. So, I lost out on new friends and one of the only forums that truly gave good advice and made sure you got and answer. Shit, some of the other sites that I posed a question on didn't get an answer for days. One jerk is all it takes. Man, I don't give a rats' ass that you are in charge, I'm putting aside some time tomorrow to enter more galleries. I still need to put up the porn, but my friend said I could on their server. But friends can let you down... We'll see. Otherwise, I'll fork out the money for another site with porn. I'll write more, but I'm tired write now. I'm sick, so that's why the updated is so small... Heheheh...